This event is recorded in Matthew 19:16-30 / Mark 10:17-31 / Luke 18:18-30, but it’s in Mark’s account we find the most detail concerning the event.
Jesus and His disciples were leaving the region of Judea and heading towards Jerusalem when a young man ran up to Him and fell before Him, Mark 10:17.
The young man who addressed Jesus was rich, Matthew 19:22 / Mark 10:22 / Luke 18:23, he was doing well for himself, he was the kind of man everyone in society would look up to and strive to be like.
We must remember that he was a ruler with some position in society, Luke 18:18. He was a young man with responsibilities and status, this is important to understand because these positions were what James and John sought, Matthew 20:20-28 / Mark 10:35-45. This is what this young ruler had but could not give up.
There must have been something about his religion which was lacking something, he knew something wasn’t right with his religion. Later, we see that he had been obedient to the law, Matthew 19:20 / Mark 10:20 / Luke 18:21, and he was a ‘good’ person but still something wasn’t missing from his life.
He was honest with himself and humble enough to call Jesus, a ‘good teacher’, Mark 10:17 / Luke 18:18, which was a sign of respect. We know He was concerned about his own spiritual welfare because he ran up to Jesus requesting information on how to receive eternal life, Matthew 19:16 / Mark 10:19 / Luke 18:18, he was honestly looking for answers.
Notice at this point Jesus doesn’t answer his question regarding eternal life but what He does do is address the man’s comment about Jesus being ‘good’, Matthew 19:17 / Mark 10:18 / Luke 18:19.
We see that the real problem which people were facing was simply this, how can sinful people approach an all-good God? John 14:6 / Romans 7:24-25.
Concerning Jesus’ response to the young man, Erdman says, ‘The perfect goodness of God was a universal doctrine of Judaism, and it is evident that the Lord was here building the young man’s thoughts toward the recognition of Jesus as God. It is the equivalent of our Lord’s saying, ‘Look, don’t you know that if I am good, as you say, then I am therefore God?’
Marks and Luke’s accounts leave out something very important, In Matthew’s account notice the young man asked Jesus, which commandments? Matthew 19:17-18. This is very important to understand as we shall see in a moment.
Notice that Jesus only quoted the last five of the Ten Commandments, Exodus 20:12-16 / Deuteronomy 5:16-20 / Matthew 19:18-19 / Mark 10:19 / Luke 18:20, why did He not quote the first five commandments?
It’s clear that Jesus was trying to lead this young man into a deeper understanding of the truth, by not quoting, ‘love God with your heart, mind, soul and strength’, Deuteronomy 6:4-7 / Matthew 22:37-40 / Mark 12:30-31 / Luke 10:27, implies that the young man wasn’t obedient to these commandments, but had no real problem keeping the others.
In other words, the young man won’t receive eternal life simply by keeping only part of the law, he couldn’t receive eternal life by law-keeping, and he couldn’t save himself, no matter how obedient to the law he was, James 2:10. What’s the point in keeping any of the law, if you don’t love God with everything you’ve got.
Matthew gives us more information at this point, the young man asked Jesus a very important question. ‘What do I still lack?’ Matthew 19:20. If his question tells us anything, it tells us that he’s honest with himself and sincere regarding his question about eternal life.
Notice the young man ticked all the boxes, ‘yep Jesus, I haven’t broken any of the commandments you’ve quoted to me’, Matthew 19:20 / Mark 10:20 / Luke 18:21.
I can imagine Jesus looking at this young man with a smile on His face, He loved him, He loved his honesty, and He loved his sincerity. What a refreshing change from those who were always trying to oppose Him.
Jesus loved the young man enough to tell him the one thing he lacked in his life, Matthew 19:21 / Mark 10:21 / Luke 18:22. He still lacked one thing, Philippians 3:6-7, he was good, but he knew that he still lacked something, Acts 10:1-6 / Galatians 3:21. The problem with the young ruler wasn’t with his outward appearance of religiosity, but with his heart.
In order to come into a right relationship with God, this particular rich person had to relieve himself of that which emotionally kept him from dependence on God.
He was self-sufficient in his riches and self-confident in his performance of law from youth. He, therefore, felt that he didn’t need to trust in the grace of God.
If he wanted to receive eternal life, he first needed to be right with God and for him to be able to do that, he had to give up the very things which he treasured most in his heart, his possessions, Matthew 19:21 / Mark 10:21 / Luke 18:22. He had to learn to depend on God rather than being self-sufficient and self-confident to receive eternal life.
Because Jesus tells him to ‘go and sell everything he has and give it to the poor’, Matthew 19:21 / Mark 10:21 / Luke 18:22, tells us that Jesus saw in this man’s life the very thing which was lacking from this man’s life.
It suggests that Jesus saw that this guy was greedy and all he cared about was himself and his wealth, Matthew 6:19-21. He was to sell all that he owned, give the proceeds to the poor, and start following Him, Luke 12:33 / Acts 2:45 / Acts 4:34-35 / Acts 12:12 / Acts 21:8.
He must be willing to sacrifice to follow Jesus, Matthew 19:21 / Mark 10:21 / Luke 18:22, in the same way the other disciples did, Matthew 9:9 / Mark 10:28.
Anyone who wants to be a follower of Christ must submit to God’s will to receive eternal life. For the young man, this would mean not only giving up his possessions but giving up his position as ruler, and as we read next, these sacrifices were just asking too much of him.
Jesus always knew what was in the hearts of people, He knew them better than they knew themselves and for this young man his problem was in his heart. Notice that he didn’t get angry with Jesus, he didn’t get all self-righteous with Jesus, he simply dropped his face and went away sad, Matthew 19:22 / Mark 10:22 / Luke 18:23.
I can imagine this young man coming to Jesus thinking he was right with God, thinking he had been obedient to God all his life, thinking that he only had to make a few small adjustments to his life to receive eternal life, only to come face to face with the reality of the condition of his own heart. The man really wanted eternal life but not at this great price.
Incidentally, this is the only account in the whole of the Gospels where Jesus commands someone to ‘follow Him’ and the command is rejected.
Like so many people who come to Jesus for salvation, they long to be saved, but when Jesus points out the costs involved, they too leave sad because they just can’t bring themselves to sacrifice so much in order to follow Him, Matthew 19:21 / Mark 10:21 / Luke 18:22 / Luke 14:25-33.
Notice that Jesus didn’t say ‘it’s impossible for the rich to enter the kingdom of God’, He said it’s ‘hard for the rich to enter the kingdom of God,’ Matthew 19:23 / Mark 10:23 / Luke 18:24.
The reason it is hard is simply because of what has just happened with the rich young ruler. The rich had a tendency to trust in material possessions and not in God.
They believed that one’s wealth was a sign that God was working in one’s life, they were wrong. The earthly treasures are more important to them, and their wealth and position in society are just too much to sacrifice, Matthew 6:20 / Matthew 13:22 / Luke 18:24-25 / 1 Corinthians 1:26 / 1 Timothy 6:9-10.
Notice also He calls them ‘children’, Mark 10:24, and then gives them an illustration which even a child can understand the impossibility of it, a camel going through the eye of a needle, Matthew 19:24 / Mark 10:25 / Luke 18:25.
No one is sure where this figurate phrase originated, but some do believe it may have been taken from a gate in the walls of Jerusalem that were so small that it was difficult for a camel to enter. Whatever the source of the metaphor, the principle is still the same, it’s difficult for the rich to enter the kingdom of God.
The disciples ask Jesus a question, ‘who then can be saved?’ Matthew 19:25 / Mark 10:26 / Luke 18:26. It seems the disciples were in shock, not so much with the rich young ruler’s leaving but with Jesus’ teaching to the rich young ruler.
Remember the Jews believed if someone was rich, then that meant that they were highly favoured by God, but they were even more highly favoured by God if they kept the commandments.
The disciples must have looked at the rich young ruler and thought, ‘wow, God has richly blessed him, he must be a prime candidate for eternal life!’
They must have thought, as many of the Jews, if this young rich ruler couldn’t be saved, then who on earth can be saved? Now obviously the Jewish thinking was wrong, the disciple’s thinking was wrong because no one can be justified before God by keeping law, because all sin, Galatians 2:16.
It’s a sad fact that many people follow in the rich young ruler’s steps, they desire eternal life, as long as they don’t have to make too many sacrifices. Jesus referred to these people when He remarked about how difficult it is for those who are rich to enter heaven.
Jesus tells them that God and God alone, has the power to let people see the foolishness in trusting in their wealth instead of trusting in God, Matthew 19:26 / Mark 10:16 / Luke 18:27 / Romans 1:16. Even some of the Old Testament heroes who were abundantly rich had to trust God instead of their riches, Luke 13:28.
Peter also asked a question, ‘What then will there be for us?’ Matthew 19:27. Peter and the others indeed left everything to follow Jesus, Matthew 4:20 / Luke 5:11, but here Peter is wondering what he will receive for such a sacrifice as leaving everything behind to follow Jesus.
The shock of Jesus’ teaching really got Peter thinking about his and the disciple’s situation, they obviously didn’t understand what Jesus was teaching and so, Jesus answers him with three promises.
They will be blessed with numerous earthly possessions, their families will multiply a hundredfold and they will receive the greatest reward of all, eternal life, Matthew 19:28-30 / Mark 10:29-31 / Luke 18:29-30.
Coffman, in his commentary, says the following concerning, the disciples sitting on thrones and becoming judges of the twelve tribes, Matthew 19:28.
‘This was not a reference to literal thrones but to spiritual thrones of eminence and authority in Christ’s kingdom, from which they should exercise influence, not over fleshly Israel but over the spiritual Israel, which is the church, Romans 9:6 / Galatians 3:29. Note that no preference was given to Peter. There was not to be one throne, occupied by Peter and his successors, but twelve thrones, implying the equality of the Twelve. The word of the apostles, that is, the New Testament, is the instrument through which they exercise the authority that Jesus granted them in this promise. ‘Times of the regeneration’ refers to the times of the new birth, namely, the time of the present dispensation when men are hearing the gospel, obeying it, and being born again.’
‘Efforts to apply this passage to some kind of literal return of Jesus to the earth and which envisions Christ and the apostles actually occupying literal earthly thrones must surely be rejected in the light of the truth that Christ and the Twelve are NOW reigning in his kingdom. The reign will continue until all enemies have been put underfoot, 1 Corinthians 15:24-28. When death, the last enemy, is destroyed, Christ will not initiate a reign but will end it, delivering up the kingdom to the Father.’
Jesus says that those who leave these family relationships and possessions in order to follow Jesus will receive a hundredfold in this life, Matthew 19:29 / Mark 10:29-30 / Luke 18:29-30.
Jesus says, ‘many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first’, Matthew 20:16 / Luke 13:30 / Matthew 19:30 / Mark 10:31. This simply means just because you choose to follow Jesus before others, doesn’t mean you’ll stay faithful to Jesus to the end, others who come later may well remain faithful to the Lord.
A good example of this is Judas who was one of the first among the apostles and Paul who was the last of the apostles. Judas didn’t remain faithful to the end, but Paul did and so in this example, we see that Judas actually ended up being last and Paul ended up being first.
Clarke, in his commentary, says the following, concerning the first and last, Matthew 19:30 / Mark 10:31.
‘The Jews, who have been the first and most distinguished people of God, will, in general, reject the Gospel of my grace, and be consequently rejected by me. The Gentiles, who have had no name among the living, shall be brought to the knowledge of the truth, and become the first, the chief, and most exalted people of God. That this prediction of our Lord has been literally fulfilled, the present state of the Christian and Jewish Churches sufficiently proves. To illustrate this fully, and to demonstrate that the Jews and Gentiles were now put on an equal footing by the Gospel, our Lord speaks the following parable, which has been unhappily divided from its connection by making it the beginning of a new chapter.’
As Jesus talked to the rich man, He observed that he lacked only one thing, he only needed to get rid of his possessions. It became obvious that Jesus had properly diagnosed the man’s need because the man was unwilling to do so, he indeed was valuing his possessions over the Lord.
To follow Jesus, we must give up anything in our life that is more important to us than He is. Interestingly, this man lacked only one thing.
Some people have the idea that one sin is not all that bad, they think that while they may be failing in one area, at least they serve the Lord faithfully in all the others. This story shows clearly that even one thing can keep a person from being accepted by God.
I can only imagine what the rich young ruler must have thought if he had heard Jesus’ three promises to the disciples, maybe he would have thought twice, maybe he would have followed Jesus, sadly it was these three blessings he actually turned away from. He forfeited his soul for wealth and his position of power, Mark 8:36.
Is there one thing in your life that’s stopping you from following Jesus?